What to bring to the police after domestic violence
If you are in immediate danger, call 911. When you can, it helps to have the basics in one place, short enough to hand over at the door.
The first page: what is happening now
- Who is there, and who to call.
- Any protection order, with a copy of it.
- What happened most recently, with the date and time, in your own words.
- The evidence for that incident: photos of injuries or damage, the messages, the voicemail.
Behind it: the history
Earlier incidents, earlier police reports, and medical records belong behind the first page, in date order. The Hotline’s list of evidence includes “Police reports of when you or a witness called the police” and “Medical reports of injuries from the abuse”.1
Write down who came
NNEDV’s incident log includes the officer’s information when you report.2 Note the officer’s name and any report or case number they give you, so you can ask for the report later.
Ask how it works where you live
The Hotline suggests you “Call your local police department’s non-emergency number” to find out how filing a report works there.1
I built a tool for this part
My Damn Self does the sorting. Put in your screenshots, texts, photos and recordings, and get back one dated, numbered packet for the police, your lawyer, or the court. Your evidence is read on your own device and never leaves it.
The emergency packet is that short sheet: who is here, who to call, any protection order, and your most recent incidents with their evidence and file fingerprints. The earlier history comes after it, as background for later.
Sources
- From: The National Domestic Violence Hotline, “Building Your Case: How to Document Abuse”, www.thehotline.org/resources/building-your-case-how-to-document-abuse (read 30 Sep 2026).
- From: National Network to End Domestic Violence, Safety Net Project, “Documentation Tips for Survivors of Technology Abuse & Stalking”, www.techsafety.org/documentationtips (read 30 Sep 2026).
Quoted word for word from the page named. This is education, not legal advice. It organizes; it does not decide.